Sunday, May 20, 2012



The week after Easter was no less fun, as Mary Ann got to come out and spend some time with the fam! It was so nice to be able to have some girl time with her and soak in as much of her as we can before her baby girl arrives. We had a girls' night out with all of the women, and then spent a few hours at Grandma and Grandpa's before she had to be whisked off to the airport. She was incredibly thoughtful and gave my kids early birthday presents of some clothes and a toy. Every time I'm folding those cute clothes, I am grateful! Thank you, Aunt Mary Ann! DSC_0588

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Marshall was pleased that Alaina's dress fit him. :) DSC_0619

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Aunt Janet had to pull up a chair to push Marshall in the swing since he wanted to swing for nearly half an hour. DSC_0709

Grandpa's "tractor" rides are always a huge hit with my kids. DSC_0744

After an ugly, gray winter, spring has been beautiful here. The snow-capped mountains against the bright blue sky, plus all of the flowers in bloom and the new green everywhere has been so good for my soul. DSC_0769

Alaina still loves to collect little "babies" or "fwiends". Rocks, leaves, seeds, ants, if there's anything tiny that can be toted around, it will be collected and nurtured. DSC_0786

Having such immediate access to neighborhood kids has been a mixed blessing. I guess this is my first introduction to influential friendships, and I've been somewhat let down. I love that the kids have people to play with (and I adore the downtown it gives me to lay out and read a book for a few!), but it's been difficult to see my kids introduced to ideas and words that we've managed to shelter them from so far. These things happen when you share a backyard, and we've now insisted on being within earshot of the playgroup. I knew this day was coming, I just didn't think it'd be before entering preschool! DSC_0804

At the very end of April, we went back to Colorado for annual May trip. I'm finding that the time elapsing between trips is shortening every time, since it's becoming harder and harder for me to be away from the kids to do a job that I really don't like. We are beginning to lay the foundation of our friendships and they are my little buddies. It makes leaving them to go refill sodas and baskets of bread maddeningly depressing, but hey, only eleven more months until graduation. We didn't do much the week we were there, just worked on our tans and watched The Derby.

I walked into Alaina's room to see her looking picture-perfect. She's changing so quickly and her remnants of babyhood are quickly fading. Even her face is slimming, and when those baby cheeks go completely, so will a piece of my heart! DSC_0804

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I find myself kissing and squeezing these little hands more and more often. They're petite and soft, but her nails almost always have chipped polish and dirt underneath. I know this stage of crayons, dirt, Bootsie, and elation at finding honeysuckle blossoms won't last forever, but is it wrong to want it to? DSC_0840

In the past couple of months, Connor has been impressing me with his development, advancing in leaps and bounds. The kiddie scooter we bought him for Christmas just doesn't provide the speed that the big one does, so he set out to master it. He's taken some pretty big spills on it, and while I'm beaming with pride at how fast he can go and how well he balances, it makes me the happiest when he takes a good tumble and announces, "I'm okay!" DSC_0931

Connor's, I mean Daynarae's, Jeep. :) He's been a great driver since he was two. The boys even let him drive their golf cart on the course this time, and he drove like a pro. DSC_0945

Twins, 50 years apart. DSC_0971

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It took a couple of years for Alaina to warm up to Nana, but now that they're bonding over bows, jewelry, nailpolish, shopping, anything GIRLY, she often chooses Nana over me. I'm so excited to see their relationship grow, but a little put out as I'm no longer the apple of Alaina's eye! :) DSC_0991

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We were lucky enough to have Daynarae for a big chunk of the trip. At Christmas, I was a little worried about Alaina feeling left out since Daynarae seemed to prefer Connor, but the girls just keep getting girlier! Here they were dancing and twirling, and they were inseparable. We're going to have to import a little boy from somewhere to play with Connor! DSC_1020

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Note to everyone: these girls are not allowed to drive anywhere together in their teenage years! They blast the music, Alaina laughs and screams, and Daynarae drives as fast as she can without watching where she's going. Though it's probably not funny to Ryan, I think it's hilarious to see her act as though she's not hearing Ryan yell, "Daynarae, watch the road!" DSC_1071

As Ray's baby girl, Zoey is practically a cousin, thus prone to Connor's jokes. He put a hat on her and she looked at me, practically saying, "SERIOUSLY?". DSC_1093

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While the girls played, Connor chose to play disc golf with the big boys. DSC_1131

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Homedude can throw a "tisbee"! DSC_1142

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If I could handle the shedding of a beagle, it would definitely be the breed to get for Connor. He absolutely loves to play fetch with Zoey. DSC_1192

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We wanted to do something out of the ordinary to celebrate the kids' birthdays while we were there, so we decided to go horseback riding in Estes Park! DSC_1260

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At first we were worried about how Connor would do on a horse. We thought he'd be able to ride with Papa, but once we found out that most bigger 4-year-olds have their own horse, we tried to make it sound as fun as possible. We told Connor that they had special horses for boys who were four, almost five, and that did the trick. DSC_1294

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Uncle Ray, quite the character. DSC_1315

Off we go! DSC_1332

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Alaina kept asking to "doe fast", but because of the rocky terrain, the horses could only amble. She tried to get her thrill by "sticking her hand out of the window" for most of the ride. DSC_1420

Somewhat surprisingly, Connor loved every minute of the hour-long ride! DSC_1430

Daynarae tapped out first... DSC_1442

...with Alaina following closely behind. DSC_1452

Once back at the house, we all resumed our perma-positions on the driveway, and the kids found a friend! DSC_1469

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Disc golf from the balcony! DSC_1483

I got a great deal on some antigravity chairs a few weeks ago, and we brought them on the trip. Ray loved ours so much that he had to go out and get his own! I love this picture because Ray and Zoey look like two peas in a pod. DSC_1496

Being up on a hill with unconstructed lots around provides for some beautiful evening light. DSC_1502

I wondered if that plane was headed to SLC. DSC_1509

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This picture stresses me out a little bit, but I know I will treasure it one day. This was the mayhem created after only being out for an hour or so! DSC_1532

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My kids have begun to take dandelion wishes very seriously. They won't tell me what they wish for, but I am seriously dying to know. DSC_1765

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On our last night, after pretty terrible weather all day, we were graced with this beauty of a sunset. DSC_1808

Those brothers...crazies...all of them. DSC_1833

Ray started a fire in the chimenea after the kids went to bed, but once Connor whiffed the distinct smell of burning wood, he rushed down from Papa's room. To his delight, Ray showed him the magic that is charcoal lighter fluid. Remind me to NEVER have that around the house! You can see the wonder and awe on Connor's face! DSC_1847

2 comments:

Mary Ann Carlile said...

Do you realize that when you make such long posts, it's hard for me to comment because there is just so much to cover?! ;)
First thing - Two words: I'm preggo-fat. Yes, that's a word. It was really fun seeing you though!
Neighbor kids really are a mixed blessing, huh? Sometimes when I come home in the car and there are a particular couple of kids outside, I have to close my garage as soon as I pull in (before the car is even off!) cuz they have no boundaries. But I think in the end, my children LOVE it, so I have to deal. Your comments about your kids growing up makes me sad! I am not one to dwell on stuff like that, but now you've forced me to - and it makes me sad cuz it's too true. Colorado looked nice and relaxing. Bet the kids totally loved every minute of it. I'm jealous you can travel 6-7 hours to see in-laws/cousins! Your pictures are gorgeous btw. Once I saw your horse pictures, I immediately started sneezing. No joke. Keep the posts comin!

Marinda said...

loved your post! fun recap of colorado and macker's visit.